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A Surprise Party of 7| Plant City Home Birth Story| Tampa Bay Home Birth Midwifery

At 40 +5 I went to bed that night extremely tired as any past due pregnant Mama would be, and not at all thinking I would soon meet our baby. On 12/6/15 at 2:30 AM I woke up to that pop and gush everyone mentioned would happen when your membranes rupture spontaneously. I thought "this can't be?!" This was my fifth baby and I dreamt of having this water breaking moment like in the movies but never thought it would happen.

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Why We Rally- Join the 2016 Rally to Improve Birth

Maternity care in our country is in crisis. We need change and change happens from the bottom up- by informing, supporting and empowering women and families to get in the driver's seat when it comes to childbirth. We advocate for each other as individuals and as a group. WE are the solution.

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4 steps to a successful breastfeeding relationship

World Breastfeeding Week (WBW) is held the first week of every August. Each day this week, my Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter newsfeeds have been full of beautiful, strong, and inspiring photos of breastfeeding moms and babies/toddlers. These images make me proud to be a breastfeeding mom and international board certified lactation consultant (IBCLC).

The theme of WBW this year is Breastfeeding: A Key to Sustainable Development. Studies have proven over and over again that moms who have support breastfeed longer. This in turn makes moms and babies healthier, improves economies, and strengthens families.

Here are 4 ways to set yourself for a successful breastfeeding relationship.

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Sent by Marley - A Rainbow Baby Birth Story | Tampa Bay Home Birth Midwife

On January 21st 2015 I was given the news that a baby, whom I named Marley no longer had a heart beat. I was 15 weeks pregnant and just like that, I wasn't. I'll never know if Marley was a baby girl or a baby boy but none the less that was my baby.. One I'll hold in my heart and memory until my last breath. I never knew much about rainbow babies, like I assume most don't who haven't experienced loss but I knew right away I wanted another baby. I NEEDED another baby.

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Home Birth Statistics for 2013-2016 | Tampa Bay Home Birth Midwife

When I began my practice here in Tampa it was very important to me that we keep transparency about our statistics and outcomes. None of the birth centers or midwives I had previously worked for or with routinely did this- those who did never routinely published them. As a mother, I felt I would want this information when seeking out a provider. It is something I wish was mandated for all providers!

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Hello, Isla Vaughn | Tampa Bay Home Birth Midwife

Sometimes our ideas about what to expect can hinder how things are needing to unfold in birth. We are our own worst enemies and can get in our own body's way more than anyone else. As midwives, we sometimes joke about the 3rd baby for a family being the 'wild card.' I want to believe this is just old midwifery folklore but the reality is that in 9 years I think I have seen this true more often than not. 

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A 2nd Home VBAC Triumph | Tampa Bay Home Birth Midwife | Birth Videography

Taking care of families through multiple pregnancies is super special. This mama and I met in an ICAN meeting about 6 years ago. I will never forget Katye's willingness to share about her traumatic experience with her first son. A completely unnecessary cesarean forced upon her by a very aggressive doctor who lacked patience and compassion. Every single meeting Katye would come and cry and my heart broke for her every time.

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Body Positivity- My journey through Motherhood

I’ve always thought of myself as a fairly confident person, as far as body image goes. I don’t often care what others think, as evidenced by my love for very short hair, wearing bright colors, and being seen in public often in leggings (“not-real-pants,” as my husband calls them). I rarely wear makeup anymore, often forget that my eyebrows are bushy or my legs need shaving, and don’t even own a scale since I never weigh myself. But I find that I’m likely just as self conscious as the next person- looking in the mirror and seeing only the bags under my eyes or that flabby skin, thinking my hair hates me today, wondering if the shorts I just put on are too short for these thighs or if something this tight should be worn out in public. I have my struggles like anyone.

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Knox-ing It Out of the Park | A Tampa Bay Home Birth Story

My first son was born in the hospital with typical hospital scares (and almost a c-section), but I was able to have him naturally and vaginally.

The night after he was born, I walked up to the nurses counter and had a conversation with one of the nurses.  She had six children, five were born at home.  She told me “don’t come back here stay at home.”

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Little Izzi Moon : A Tampa Home Birth Story | Tampa Midwife

I have planned to give birth at home for years. Not 'just' a crazy hippie, it was actually my extensive education and years of work in the field of maternity care that had convinced me.

I knew that for my healthy baby and I, the care of a trained midwife at home had far fewer unnecessary interventions, more personal and respectful care, and was as safe as giving birth in the hospital. 

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Glory, Glory, Gloria! Welcoming a Posterior Baby at Home | Tampa Bay Homebirth

I woke up around 3 in the morning and had a contraction that felt a bit different than the Braxton Hicks I’d been having in increasing frequency lately. It came and then it went, and then another did the same as I was trying to fall back asleep. I really had thought baby wouldn’t come for at least a few more days - I was only 39+3 and Booker had come at 40+2. But the contractions felt different enough that I decided to start timing them right then."

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The Community Roots Collective Grand Opening & House Blessin' | Tampa Bay Community Center

We are so pleased to share with the community our new labor of love, The Community Roots Collective. With this special space we are inviting families to come grow with us! We hope to create a space where families can come grow their roots by building community through education, resources, and most of all- LOVE! We celebrated our official grand opening on Sunday May 17th. Thank you to the 250+ families that came out to celebrate and bless our new space! We had such a fantastic time with all of you and look forward to making more memories in the years to come! 

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